I have been a Boundless writer for 19 years. You don’t write about singleness, relationships and adulting for that long without gathering a few life-shaping insights. Here are a few things Boundless has taught me through the years.
Boundless taught me men are not the enemy. During my early 20s, I often heard my single Christian girlfriends blaming men for their singleness. And sometimes I joined them. After all, men were the ones who were supposed to step up to pursue us, live godly lives, take risks and, well, be men! Unfortunately, many of us had bad experiences: guys who treated us like buddies or wouldn’t take a risk to ask us out. It was easy to shift blame for the frustration many of us felt in a seeming lack of romantic possibilities.
Someone recently told me: “The enemy is the enemy. The devil is out to rip us all off.” And that is the truth. While we may be tempted to place the blame on the opposite sex, Satan is the one who wants to stop godly marriages before…
