I’m gonna go out on a limb and guess there’s something you and your girlfriend or boyfriend don’t quite see eye to eye on. Maybe it’s something small like your favorite movie genre. Or maybe it’s something bigger like having children after your married.
Here’s the important question to ask yourself: Does your boyfriend or girlfriend know that you disagree with him or her?
If your significant other doesn’t, that’s not unusual. A lot of dating couples avoid arguing about things they don’t agree on. We tend to let love abound rather than risk a big fight that might lead to a breakup.
But what if you’re hurting your relationship by avoiding arguments? Here are five ways avoiding arguments can ruin your relationship.
1. You’re not being honest about who you are.
Do you really love country music, or are you just pretending to for her? Maybe you don’t want to live in a tiny home in the woods someday, but does he know that?
Avoiding disagreements disguises who…
